When first deciding you
would like to purchase an adult toy, how do you know which one is for
you? There are so many adult sex toys designed to do so many things. Twisting,
whirling, pulsating, you get dizzy just thinking about it. After you
have decided what it is you want your toy to do, you must then consider
colour, size and price. This short adult toy guide is here to help you
find your way through the jungle of toys and come out smiling.
usually measure twelve to eighteen centimeters (five to seven
inches) in length and two to five centimeters (one to
two inches) wide to mimic the size of an actual penis. Anal
Toys are typically shorter than general penetrative vibrators,
and have a flared base to prevent the device
from becoming lost in the rectum. The
G-spot vibrator is curved at the end to facilitate stimulation of the
female G-spot. Bullet
vibrators are small, bullet-shaped vibrators that can be used for
direct stimulation or inserted into other sex toys
vibrating devices intended to stimulate the erogenous zones of the
body. Vibrators intended for sexual use are often penis-shaped,
although they also come in a wide range of shapes and sizes, allowing
internal as well as external use.
pussies" or "masturbators" are
modeled to accept a penis for simulated intercourse. They can be shaped
like vaginas, anuses, or anything with a hole for penetration.
rings in their most basic form enhance and prolong
a man's erection by keeping blood inside the penis. A man may
wear a cock ring because he has
erectile difficulties, or because he likes the particular sensation of tightness
and engorgement that wearing one provides. Some models include a protruding
clitoral stimulator, designed to stimulate the clitoris during sex. Others
vibrate to provide stimulation to the testicles
and clitoris. Some cock rings have vibrators attached which can be worn to
stimulate a partner during sexual intercourse, especially in the scrotum
or perineum. A cock harness
is a more elaborate harness designed to be worn around the penis and
scrotum. Its intention is similar to that
of a cock ring.
penis sleeve is a cylindrical
device that is placed on the shaft of the penis, with the aim of
increasing stimulation for the person
They often have soft bumps intended to provide further stimulation. A
penis extension is a partially hollow device like a very short dildo,
with the hollow end placed on the end of the penis, intended
length of the penis, again for the benefit of the person being penetrated.
These are generally worn with condoms to prevent them from falling
off during use.
Nipple clamps are used
to stimulate the nipples by applying varying degrees of pressure. Suction
devices are generally either rubber or glass, fit around the nipple,
and cause nipples to become more sensitive due to engorgement. Glass suction
devices may use either heat or a pump to create suction.
Plugs are shorter dildos intended for anal insertion.
They tend to have a flared base to prevent the device from becoming
in the rectum. Anal Beads are balls or bumps on a string or a semi-rigid
wand. They are inserted into the rectum and then removed with varying
A dildo is
a non-vibrating device which is used for sexual stimulation of the
vagina and/or anus. Dildos are generally
made of silicone rubber, or occasionally more creative materials such
as metals or glass. They are often made to resemble a penis. A double-ended
dildo is a long, usually flexible dildo with both ends
designed for penetration. It allows for mutual penetration between
two persons (or for double penetration of a single female, both anally
Ben Wa balls are
hollow metal balls inserted vaginally which can be worn inside the
vagina for extended periods of time.
rolling is said to enhance orgasms, and may enable women with vaginal
difficulties to reach orgasm.
A basic understanding of the adult sex toys above is required
in order to find the stimulation you are looking for.
There are a few things you need
to consider: What type of stimulation do you want? Are you looking
your penile, clitoral, vaginal or anal zones? Do you need an insertion
type sex toy or a one that you can use over the entire body?
When purchasing your adult toy, there is
no need to jump into the deep-end straight away. Jelly toys are always
a good place to start. They are
gentle in touch as well as flexible and easy to clean. Once you have
got something you like then you can indulge in the high-tech knowing
you are spending your money safely. Don't feel shy to ask someone or
read up about the toy you're considering on purchasing. There is a
multitude of books and videos available to offer advice on how to approach
adult toys. Product reviews are another great way to find out
what others who have used the toy thought of its performance.
Remember to have fun, purchasing your adult toy should
be a fun experience. Experiment with the different ways your toy can
bring you pleasure by varying positions and speeds.
Safety is extremely important when using your sex toys. Before
you begin playtime there are a few things you need to keep in mind. Because
used in or on genital areas it is important to always practice safe sex
when using them. Adult toys can spread infections or STD's between people.
After every use your toy must be thoroughly cleaned and dried. Most
toys will only require soap and warm water for a sufficient clean. To
help prevent transmission of STD's ensure that you never share an adult
toy with someone else unless you use a condom with it or clean it in
each person using it. Always use plenty of lubricant when inserting toys
into your vagina or anus. The lubrication will help with increased stimulation
and creating a comfortable and safer insertion. Oil based lubricants
can damage condoms and the toys themselves so think twice before reaching
for lubricants like baby oil or Vaseline.
NEVER use anything in your own or your partner's vagina after it has been used for any form of anal play. Always clean your toy thoroughly beforehand.
To have a lasting relationship with you toys try to follow these tips not only for your own safety but your toys as well.
- Always remove the batteries after use.
- Avoid getting the battery case or controls wet.
- Wash only with warm water and mild soap. DO NOT submerge in water.
- Always use with a water-based lubricant.